When dealing with hurtful remarks about one's self and appearance, realize that every individual views you different and not everyone sees you in the same negative way.
Knowing this can make it easier to cope with negative insults.
Hello Lydia I love the picture of the persion cat very noble. I like your post This is so true we have to have a strong opinion of ourselves to get through life when we can do this it makes it so much easier!!! Remember our opinion is the most important. When we keep this strong we will go far in life have a great day!!!
Hello Jamerson, What a nice reply to my post. I love persian cats. They are just beautiful and very unique in appearance. Even though I love all cats, I've always prefered owning persians. We have to be very strong when people are judging us and cutting us down, realizing that people who like to do this to others are mean, ignorant, and deep down inside, not satified with their own lives, no matter how high their academic education or how much money they may earn. While another is judging us harshly, we have to make sure not to judge ourselves along with them , but instead complement ourselves about all the good things we possess within ourselves. Wishing you a very nice evening, Lydia
Hello Olivia, Thank you! Though this is not my kitty,but she looks just like Tessa, that is why I used the photo. Yes I know your right, many people hate different things and there's is nothing we can do for mean spirited people, but tolorate them while they are in our presence. The sun is shining beautiful here today!!!!!!! I look forward to spending it outdoors. I hope the weather's nice where you are? Wishing you a day filled with happiness and very bright and warm sunshine! Lydia
I do not think we should tolerate mean-spirited people in our presence but avoid them and not let them come near us.
Also my experience with nasty remarks is to ignore them. The more you show that you are hurt, the more they will continue ... Those are sadists taking pleasure in hurting others.
Well, the weather is fine here in the South of France, not too hot, not too cold. I find May and June the best months of the year.
I planted a light blue plumbago bush in my tiny strip of garden and am watering it twice a day, hoping it will take on and grow. It is supposed to grow 4 meters high, climbing up the wall of the house.
hello Olivia, I must say you are one of the strongest and wisest women I have met! I love getting advise from you! It makes a lot of sense and it works. Your so right the more mean people know they get to us the more they enjoy hurting us. What they say is all junk anyway!!!!! I have been planting my tomatoes and escarole today. It is sunny and in the upper 80's here! very hot. I am taking a break. I did not till this year. I am hand digging all of it.
I am sure your garden looks very pretty! Wishing you a great evening! Lydia
hello Olivia, I will go over right now! I've been cleaning and gardening all day! I almost have all of my tomatoes in!!!!!!!!! Have a beautiful evening, Lydia
Hello Olivia, I have my sunbrights. romas , lemon boys and super sonic tomatoes planted already. Now I only have to plant my big boys and cherrie tomaotoes. You gave me an Idea for my next painting. Right now I am in the middle of painting the "Wicked" logo for my girlfriend, because she missed the show we were both supposed to go to together. It's turning out very nice!
Hello Lydia I love the picture of the persion cat very noble. I like your post This is so true we have to have a strong opinion of ourselves to get through life when we can do this it makes it so much easier!!! Remember our opinion is the most important. When we keep this strong we will go far in life have a great day!!!
ReplyDeleteBonsoir my dear friend Lydia,
ReplyDeletethis Persian cat is just beautiful, she will certainly hear no negative remarks about her appearance.
Of course there are those who hate cats, just like they hate witches or anything else that is mysterious about life ...
The photo is lovely and the saying so true.
Wishing you a peaceful night.
It is 2 a.m. in the morning here in France.
Cheers and blessings
Olivia
Hello Jamerson,
ReplyDeleteWhat a nice reply to my post.
I love persian cats. They are just beautiful and very unique in appearance. Even though I love all cats, I've always prefered owning persians.
We have to be very strong when people are judging us and cutting us down, realizing that people who like to do this to others are mean, ignorant, and deep down inside, not satified with their own lives, no matter how high their academic education or how much money they may earn.
While another is judging us harshly, we have to make sure not to judge ourselves along with them , but instead complement ourselves about all the good things we possess within ourselves.
Wishing you a very nice evening,
Lydia
Hello Olivia, Thank you!
ReplyDeleteThough this is not my kitty,but she looks just like Tessa, that is why I used the photo.
Yes I know your right, many people hate different things and there's is nothing we can do for mean spirited people, but tolorate them while they are in our presence.
The sun is shining beautiful here today!!!!!!! I look forward to spending it outdoors.
I hope the weather's nice where you are?
Wishing you a day filled with happiness and very bright and warm sunshine!
Lydia
I do not think we should tolerate mean-spirited people in our presence but avoid them and not let them come near us.
ReplyDeleteAlso my experience with nasty remarks is to ignore them. The more you show that you are hurt, the more they will continue ... Those are sadists taking pleasure in hurting others.
Well, the weather is fine here in the South of France, not too hot, not too cold. I find May and June the best months of the year.
I planted a light blue plumbago bush in my tiny strip of garden and am watering it twice a day, hoping it will take on and grow. It is supposed to grow 4 meters high, climbing up the wall of the house.
Blessings and cheers
Olivia
hello Olivia,
ReplyDeleteI must say you are one of the strongest and wisest women I have met! I love getting advise from you! It makes a lot of sense and it works.
Your so right the more mean people know they get to us the more they enjoy hurting us.
What they say is all junk anyway!!!!!
I have been planting my tomatoes and escarole today. It is sunny and in the upper 80's here! very hot. I am taking a break. I did not till this year. I am hand digging all of it.
I am sure your garden looks very pretty!
Wishing you a great evening!
Lydia
Bonjour Lydia,
ReplyDeletethe beautiful Persian cat inspired me to post another article about cats on my blog.
Wishing you a great day,
Olivia
hello Olivia,
ReplyDeleteI will go over right now! I've been cleaning and gardening all day!
I almost have all of my tomatoes in!!!!!!!!!
Have a beautiful evening,
Lydia
Congratulations about the tomatoes, Lydia.
ReplyDeleteSo we'll have a new tomato post soon ?
By the way, tomatoes and avocados are also a good theme to paint, a vegetable still life ...
Blessings and cheers,
Olivia
Hello Olivia,
ReplyDeleteI have my sunbrights. romas , lemon boys and super sonic tomatoes planted already. Now I only have to plant my big boys and cherrie tomaotoes.
You gave me an Idea for my next painting.
Right now I am in the middle of painting the "Wicked" logo for my girlfriend, because she missed the show we were both supposed to go to together.
It's turning out very nice!
Have a nice friday!
Lydia