bouguereau-wet_cupid, originally uploaded by PLOTINOS.My mother passed away on Sunday December 19, 2004. We had her funeral the day before Christmas eve. This was by far the worst week of my life.We were not only mother and daughter, we were also best friends. We would see each other everyday. If a day went by when we couldn't see each other, we would chat on the phone at least five times that day. She had many beautiful flower gardens in her yard and an amazing vegetable garden. On those lazy summer days I remember my mom and I lounging in her gazebo, overlooking her park like yard, while sipping on some Italian red wine. At times the sound of the wind chimes that hung close by, would just lull me to sleep while laying on the wicker sofa. We would sit outside and watch all the different species of butterflies fluttering around her many beautiful flowers.
Things have changed quite tremendously for my whole family since the death of my mother on that cold snowy day I'll never forget. She is missed so much by all of us. The strangest thing happened this morning. While sitting by my Christmas tree writing the draft for this post, one of the Christmas ornaments that used to be my mom's, fell off the tree and shattered. Maybe this was her way of letting me know that she's o.k. and her love is still with me during this holiday season. She always visits me in my dreams , which proves to me that love has no boundaries.
Hello Lydia,
ReplyDeletewhat a moving post! Your mother was a very warmhearted, caring and loving person, the way you describe her, and a very artistic woman as well, planting beautiful flowers in the yard and hanging a chime in the gazebo.
I am sure that she watches over you and communicates with you daily. Probably you can reach out to her through meditation and prayer.
Hello Olivia, Thanks so much for dropping by and commenting. I will take your advise and try to reach her through meditation and prayer.
ReplyDeletehello lydia
ReplyDeleteI felt saddenes while im reading and i understand exactly what u mean
I think it is wonderful always to remeber our loved one
iblive that ur mother is in abetr place now, and by the way she look exactly like my mother
I agree with you that love has no boundaries
I consider my mother as aone of dearest friends to me, and we talk almost every two days
Although she is very sick
iwill come back after the holiday season to my country because i miss her my friends and my brothers
she will live s in ur heart and she will be happy whn u brayer to her
And happy holidays to you
Hello Osama, Thank you so much for stopping by and giving me your kind words. I'm sorry that your mother isn't well. I will certainly keep her in my prayers. I will also keep you in my prayers. I know how heartbreaking it is to see your mother so sick and nothing is working to help her get better. My mother too was very sick for one year before she passed away in the hospital. I'm sure sure your mom will be so happy when you go home to visit her. Warm holiday wishes to both you and your family.
ReplyDeleteHi Lydia,
ReplyDeleteI wanted to add one more thought. You have a wonderful inheritance from your mother - your knowledge of her Italian recipes. I am sure she is very proud of you being such an excellent cook and sharing her recipes on this blog.
Hello Olivia, I am so thankful and fortunate to have had her making homecooked meals for us daily. I often miss her cooking, so everytime I get a craving for one of her dishes, I'll make something of hers thats an exact match in taste of the way she made it.
ReplyDeleteI believe in the eternal power of love. I know your mother must be very proud of you and your kind, generous spirit. What a very touching post, Lydia.
ReplyDeleteHello Amber, Thank you so much. I too believe in the eternal power of love.
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful post. I, too, believe she is with you.
ReplyDeleteHappy Holidays to you and your family. Stay warm!
Hello Sue, Thank you. I also wish you and your family a happy holiday.
ReplyDeleteyes indeed, love has no boundaries. thanks for dropping by my site. i will add your site too on my two blogs.
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Hello My world, thank you.
ReplyDeleteMerry Christmas to you, dear Lydia,
ReplyDeletehave a bright holiday season with lots of your mother's good Italian food and red wine. Cheers!
Olivia
hello lydia
ReplyDeletethank you for your kind words and your nice congratlations.Merry Christmas, and happy new year to you and your family,ihop that the new year will holds the joy happiness and peace to the world
Hello Lydia, I am sure your mother watches over you and your family. It is lovely that you remember her so fondly and with so much love in your words.
ReplyDeleteHello Olivia, Thank you and I did enjoy and cook some of my mother's recipes on christmas day.
ReplyDeleteHello Osama, Thank you again. I wish you and your family a wonderful 2008.
Hello Linda, Thank you. I believe your right. Those we love that are on the other side, do watch over us shining their love and positive energy down on us.
lydia - u're right, love has no boundaries. so sorry to hear about your mom and sending you warm wishes this holiday season!
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Hello Wendiva, Welcome to my blog. Thank you for coming by and commenting. I wish you a happy holiday and a wonderful new year.
ReplyDeleteThis is a nice post in remembrance of your mother.
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Hello Oswegan, Thank you.
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